So we're going to assume that we valued all these assets as low as possible, since we knew from the getgo that the estate would be over $3.5M. And we're going to re-value everything at 6 months, in case we can get some benefits from alternate valuation.
It is nearly always true that it's better to pay less estate tax: not only is income tax generally lower, but it's not paid until the future.
Now some questions.
If it's to United Cerebral Palsy of Dane County, we could probably take advantage of the charitable deduction. Note that both for the charitable deduction and the marital deduction, it's important to be paid directly (or else it's complicated). So we might want to check to make sure that it's going directly enough. But that shouldn't be a problem here. This would humongously reduce the taxable estate (tax base would be $600K). We'd still have to file a return (because the gross estate + the adjusted taxable gifts was high), but no tax would be due.
Note also that the minute the estate tax base goes down so low, we want to start valuing our other assets (the house and the Varoom stock, e.g.) as highly as possible.
But. ERISA: this was a policy through the decendant's employer. So it trumps state law having to do with employee benefits, but we haven't said for sure that this is a private employer, but the facts imply that it is. How ERISA will apply is a bit of a law-in-action question; we can't be 100% certain. But if it does, it could wipe out the whole marital property line of reasoning. If this were a retirement benefit question, and not a life insurance question, the spouse would have a share (if you're married for more than 1 year, ERISA gives a spouse a share of the retirement benefits-- but it doesn't do that for life insurance).
Note that we didn't address state inheritance taxes. State death taxes can be important (about 18 states have them), and they can be very convoluted. So it's important to be aware that this can be an issue. KNOW THESE FOR THE EXAM:
When he dies, his half gets new basis (§ 1014 -- ordinary rule). If it's community property, and the decedent's half gets new basis, the spouse also gets new basis. But this is not community property, so she keeps her old basis of $40K. Total basis is $100K.
But in the spouse situation, yes, we'd want a higher appraisal, because it's covered by the marital deduction, and the spouse would get the new basis.
There's a lawyer-client relationship here.
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The couple could split the gift (§ 2513), but maybe H isn't agreeing to do this.
Or if the gift got deposited into a joint account, she'd need the cooperation of the husband to give it, since it's more than $1K.